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Changing the world one step at a time

Several times during my life I have been asked, “If you could change anything in this world, what would it be?” And, at various times I have given different answers to this question: poverty, the environment, or honesty. But, I have an answer that could really make a difference in our world — not that solving the problem of poverty, saving our environment, or creating an atmosphere of honesty would not make substantial contributions. If everyone — parents, teachers, religious leaders, politicians, and individuals themselves — focused on developing and maintaining a “thinking” environment, perhaps many of the other problems of this world would and could be solved.

And Then Some is all about striving to better than what we are now. Richard L. Weaver II, PhD shares his thoughts in ways we can all help change the world.

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A “thinking” environment should be at the core of any true democracy
by Richard L. Weaver II, PhD

Several times during my life I have been asked, “If you could change anything in this world, what would it be?” And, at various times I have given different answers to this question: poverty, the environment, or honesty. But, I have an answer that could really make a difference in our world — not that solving the problem of poverty, saving our environment, or creating an atmosphere of honesty would not make substantial contributions. If everyone — parents, teachers, religious leaders, politicians, and individuals themselves — focused on developing and maintaining a “thinking” environment, perhaps many of the other problems of this world would and could be solved.

The first place where developing a “thinking” environment must occur is in the home. The question is, “How do you encourage children to think on their own?” Thinking as I use it in this essay means using the mind or intellect in exercising judgment, forming ideas, and engaging in rational thought. It is parents’ duty to feed and clothe their children, but parental responsibility must not stop at supplying these needs. Another basic need is to feed the minds of children with facts, information, ideas, and knowledge. Children need a foundation from which they can exercise judgment, form their own ideas, and engage in rational thought.

Important to establishing a structure upon which children can build a life is providing them stimuli — anything that rouses the mind or spirit. This may mean having books, magazines, and newspapers available, but it is important that parents read to their children from infancy (or before!) until they can comfortably and pleasurefully read for themselves. They must always be supplied with books at their level, so that when they are looking for things to do, interesting and enjoyable literature is at their fingertips. They need to see their parents reading not just sitting passively watching television, surfing the Internet, or playing movies.

In addition to reading material, children need to be taken to the library, to museums and zoos, and other trips away from home. For example, camping is a great way to discover, explore, and enjoy nature. Such excursions help them form opinions, develop feelings, and invent and imagine related ideas. Also, they need to be challenged. In our house, dinnertime was an opportunity to ask questions, present ideas, discuss positions, laugh, love, and express ourselves and our true nature.

School is the second place where developing a “thinking” environment should take place. Perhaps this looks too obvious; after all what else is school supposed to do? Students not only need to cover the basics, but those “basics” need to be reinforced at every opportunity with no excuses and no “watering down” the curriculum. Students need to be challenged from the very beginning—in preschool—where they can be asked intelligent questions, challenged to come up with their own interpretations, and even encouraged to take actions based on their facts and opinions. By beginning the “thinking” environment early, it is established as a benchmark for all other classes, grades, and levels that follow. Thinking becomes inherent, instinctive, accepted, and deeply rooted.

This does not mean that learning cannot be fun. But fun does not need to be unorganized socializing, unstructured playing, and unregulated talk. These activities can be focused, ordered, and well run so that students are actively engaged in academic work that is enriching, edifying, illuminating, productive, and gratifying. When academic activities are satisfying, students will seek to be involved on their own — without being told, encouraged, or rewarded to take part.

The school-home connection for encouraging a “thinking” environment should be established through homework. Homework promotes self-discipline and bonds between parents and children. It extends lessons introduced in school, helps students toward deeper understandings, keeps ideas and thoughts at the forefront of students’ minds, provides additional insights and understanding, prepares students for life, keeps parents informed of what is going on in school and, most important of all, establishes a pattern of learning and information acquisition beyond the classroom — outside of the school’s formal, well-defined walls.

The third place where a “thinking” environment can be established is in churches and synagogues. Although it is essential that basic concepts and understandings are established, once they are established, congregations should be attracted because churches and synagogues make what they offer inviting, even irresistible. Church patrons should then be offered alternatives and encouraged to attend other churches — to investigate, scrutinize, inspect, study, and research other religions. At no point should church-goers be reprimanded, admonished, or publicly punished because of their interest in, attendance at, or membership with another church or synagogue — even if it is a different denomination, group, sect, persuasion, or order. The main point is that people must be able to freely choose how they want to express their religious beliefs, and any church or synagogue supporting a “thinking” environment must, indeed, promote and encourage freedom for individuals within their purview.

The fourth place where a “thinking” environment can be promoted is at work. “Subscribers to the Harvard Business Review,” writes Ronald B. Adler and Jeanne Marquardt Elmhorst in their textbook Communicating at Work (McGraw-Hill), “rated ‘the ability to communicate’ the most important factor in making an executive ‘promotable,’ more important than ambition, education, and capacity for hard work.” Those most successful at work share personality traits that distinguish good communicators: a desire to persuade, an interest in talking and working with other people, and an outgoing, ascendant personality. These are the people who connect with others, discover important information, and generate creative new ideas. Given the freedom to and the rewards for “thinking,” they seek problems that demand attention, depend upon the considerable data they have stored up, ameliorate ideas, and begin thinking of well-thought-out and realistic solutions.

When a “thinking” environment begins at home, continues at school, bridges the school-home fracture with homework, is reinforced at churches and synagogues, and extends into the workplace, the result is a world full of thinkers who use the mind or intellect in exercising judgment, forming ideas, and engaging in rational thought. They analyze, criticize, take nothing for granted, weigh opinions and evidence, and devise options, alternatives, and various courses of action that are the result of organized, systematic, and rigorous reflection and deliberation. Isn’t that precisely what a true democracy should have at its core?



At the website http://www.freeinquiry.com/critical-thinking.html “An Introduction to Critical Thinking,” Steven D. Schafersman has written an excellent essay on the need to teach critical thinking skills to students. Although the essay is 17 years old, it is no less relevant today than when it was written.

In this lengthy but informative and valuable essay entitled, “Critical thinking: What is it good for? (In fact, what is it?)” at the website http://www.csicop.org/si/2006-02/thinking.html sponsored by the Committee for Skeptical Inquiry, Howard Gabennesch offers readers a thorough analysis (along with 23 supporting references) of why the term needs a clearer definition and why the stakes are so high in obtaining such a perspective. This is a very effective, well-written essay.



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We Get What We Deserve When It Comes to Alcohol Overuse and Abuse
by Richard L. Weaver II, PhD

This is an essay about how startled I am. On this topic — alcohol — I never cease to be amazed, and I have decided to use St. Patrick’s Day to reveal my feelings.

When I taught college, I was often told that students could not be in class because of heavy nights of drinking. On campuses across our country, drinking alcohol is “cool,” and active and prodigious drinking is nearly a right of entry. It is part of the deal. College students spend 5.5 billion dollars a year on alcohol — and that doesn’t include what teenagers spend.

With all that money spent by college students on alcohol, is it any wonder that 90% of student crime on college campuses is tied either directly or indirectly to alcohol. Also, rape, date rape, fights, assaults, accidents, falling off balconies, drowning, and car accidents are most often attributable to victims or perpetrators being under the influence of alcohol.

College is not an exception, rather, it accurately mirrors what happens throughout our society. Alcohol is everyone’s favorite drug, and because of that, it causes more harm than either heroin or marijuana. Fights, arguments, money troubles, family upsets, spur-of-the-moment casual sex are often tied to alcohol use just as automobile crashes, recreational accidents, on-the-job accidents, and the likelihood of homicide and suicide.

Harm also is health related. Not only does heavy drinking increase the risk of cancer of the liver, esophagus, throat, and larynx, also it can cause liver cirrhosis, immune system problems, brain damage, and injury to the fetus during pregnancy.

All of these instances of alcohol overuse are widespread, common, and well known. It goes without saying, of course, that much alcohol is consumed as a pleasant accompaniment to social activities. But with alcoholism and alcohol abuse costing our nation over $150 billion a year, you would think citizens would complain loudly about the way it is glamorized and promoted as the “cool” thing to do.

The health hazards are known, fatalities counted, and the destructive consequences often noted. But alcohol is not only available, it is heavily advertised, and widely promoted. Outraged citizens could demand more advertisements, commercials, and public service messages that emphasize healthy and safe alcohol-free activities and lifestyles. But they won’t, and they don’t.

An argument could be made for freedom. That is, that everyone has the right to consume whatever they want wherever they want. After all, this is a free society. It certainly comes as no surprise that our society is at the state we are considering the widespread overuse and abuse of alcohol. Look, for example, how the use of alcohol has effectively socialized our citizens.

Beer advertisements and commercials on television may be the front line of promotion. Some of the most memorable, funny, and best commercials on television are those associated with drinking beer. Madison avenue has taken every desirable aspect of life and tied it to beer: close and loving relationships, bonding with your friends, great sex, having attractive girlfriends and boyfriends, a glamorous lifestyle, good health, rugged outdoor lives, sports and athletics, and cool cars. The liquor industry spends billions of dollars each year to lasso young viewers.

Closely associated with these advertisements and commercials, of course, are the professional athletes and movie stars who, by their actions and advertisements, reinforce how “cool” it is to drink.

A second level of promotion may operate on a less obvious base of influence. Look at where alcoholic beverages are regularly served. First, there are the thousands of bars and taverns. It might not be so bad if it stopped there, but look, second, at the restaurants, night clubs, sporting events, festivals, state fairs, hotels, casinos, carnivals, and cruise ships. Third, to this list add the grocery stores, liquor stores, beverage stores, 7/11 stores, and state stores where bottles, cans, and cases can be purchased. Because alcohol is an adult drug permitted in our society, youth and students think that makes it okay to drink — and drink as soon as possible.

A third level of socialization, and one even more subtle than the previous areas of influence, are the religious rituals, cultural traditions, special events, and holidays associated with drinking alcohol. You can even add the alcohol added to food designed to enhance its flavor. On this level, socialization is clearly understated, and because of how subdued, it could be argued that its influence is enhanced.

Alcohol is deeply ingrained in our society. When people are surrounded with it — bombarded with advertisements and commercials, impacted by events, traditions, and holidays, and exposed to people drinking in every social situation — is it any wonder that its acceptability is part of their socialization process? Is it any wonder that people feel they need to drink alcohol to fit in? Is it any wonder that drinking alcohol is part and parcel of membership in this society?

Under these conditions, is it any wonder that the youth of our nation — including college students, I might add (the primary target of advertising is 16 - 25 year old young men) — do not see anything destructive, unhealthy, or fatal in the use, overuse, or abuse of alcohol? And why would they? They, too, are victims of subliminal programming that is both blatant and sophisticated.

Why is it that the citizens of this nation allow the alcohol industry to subliminally program our young people? Why is the industry allowed to advertise to our children? It all comes down to money, of course. Greed! The alcohol industry, just like the National Rifle Association, is rich and powerful, and they do not want anyone interfering with them. Legislators in Washington accept alcohol industry money, and with politicians in their pocket, they have the control and leverage they want. As long as you believe that alcohol is doing something positive for all of us, that alcohol is the solution to awkward, uncomfortable feelings, and that alcohol is the lubricant that oils the machinery of social interactions, the alcohol industry has you exactly where they want you.

The following verse, written anonymously, reveals the power of this “innocent” social refreshment:
I am more powerful than the combined armies of the world;
I have destroyed more men than all the wars of all the nations;
I have caused millions of accidents and wrecked more homes than all the floods, tornadoes, and hurricanes put together.
I am the worlds’ slickest thief.
I steal billions of dollars each year;
I find my victims among the rich and poor alike, I am relentless, insidious, unpredictable;
I bring sickness, poverty, and death;
I give nothing and take all;
I am your worst enemy;
I am alcohol.



“Most of the successful alcohol rehab and drug rehab programs are based on the proven Alcoholics Anonymous 12-step program, along with other cognitive and experiential therapies. Here at Cirque Lodge, we combine the best of both the cognitive and experiential therapies, including our world-famous equine therapy program and outdoor mountain therapy sessions.” This is from the Cirque Lodge website (http://www.cirquelodge.com/AlcoholRehab/AlcoholProblem.php) and the essay there is labeled “Alcohol Problem.”

There is a great, short, essay, “Historical Overview,” on the entire history of alcohol in our society, at the “Wisconsin Clearinghouse for Prevention Resources” (http://wch.uhs.wisc.edu/01-Prevention/01-Prev-Historical.html) that is interesting and worthwhile.



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